I WANT AND I CAN! BUT CAN I....????

From all thoughts, one should exclude the phrase "I cannot." If someone could, then you can. No one could - you will be the first to succeed. Your inner Self believes much more strongly in the possibility of achieving difficult goals. When you plan something impossible, for example, to earn a million within five years, consciousness refuses to do anything. It does not believe. The subconscious mind does not turn away even from such a goal. Seeing that consciousness can abandon this idea, it begins to sulk or resent and you are already torn into two parts. One of your parts regrets asking the question. A good cure for the General lack of faith is the formula "I can do anything I want! I can do everything I want!" It is quite acceptable for the subconscious mind, the consciousness will refuse it and dissuade you. For example: When you say, "Every day in everything I do, I get better!"– your consciousness asks: "Yes? I wonder how? Prove it!" However, repeatedly repeating the formula, according to the supporters of easy life, can do the impossible, and you will really become better. No one, probably, does not need to be convinced that autosuggestion in many situations can work wonders. And thinking about the prefix "self" will show that both of your parts are involved in this process. Everyone has a "want", there is a "can". Although this possibility is ambiguous, but it remains in any case. There is a saying that "any our desire is given to us together with the possibility of its implementation." Is that really the case? The basis of any neurosis there is an internal conflict between what is and what one wants to be .. What if you really want something, but it doesn't work out, how can you explain it? For a start, check your desires for their real purpose. This is not only about whether it is I WANT, but also whether I CAN do it. And one more important aspect of desires is to relate to one’s conscience, that is, can I. Do I have the right for that? If we do not want something, even if we have opportunities, then no one can force us to do it (extreme cases such as torture, work obligations are not taken into account). It turns out that we are very sensitive to their "I do not want." But some "want" sometimes lead to a dead end of our helplessness, but it turns out to be very difficult to abandon them. Or there are desires that are so strong that they actually dazzle us with their attraction and beckon with irresistible force. How great are our capabilities may be? Only kings can all)))). We can not, for example, we cannot change our appearance, …I cannot “fix” my nose when I want to look just like a famous actress. And there seems to be an opportunity to try, but even a perfect copy has an inconspicuous nuance. What we can say about the creation of a human likeness, where its own uniqueness still remains So, there are things that we still cannot do, we are just unable. Let’s suppose the following. I want, I can, but do I have the right? If not talk about illegal actions, then we give this right to ourselves. Right, based on our personal convictions, our own ethical code. In fact, it is very difficult to resist the temptation. Oscar Wilde saw only one opportunity to resist this, namely, to yield. Adultery is an obvious example of such an attractive desire. Marriage would not have stood the year. So something must hold the partner. After all, how alluring is the desire to experience the brightest, already forgotten feelings. The possibility seems to exist, it is important that nobody would find out. Here in stock there are two feeling willing and able, but it appears (not always of course) one more thing - am I right? Does it fit me, does it meet with my beliefs, and (quite rarely) how will it work out for my partner? In other words, do I give myself the right to have my own desire now to change my life, which will never be the same again. As in the famous play, "to be or not to be?" this. Or, as they say, "Fear your desires, they can come true”. Of course, you can find a lot of excuses for yourself, and a hundred motives for your desires being realized, but if at first there is at least any doubt, it can be a warning and the time for serious thought. It turns out that we always have some individual opportunity. The last our CAN – is the stop to want impossible, up on the "unnecessary for me", and the turn to our true desires, to take up a real life. Bring your desires in line not only with human capabilities, but your personal resources. When our desires coincide with our capabilities, it makes no sense to consider. I sincerely wish everyone to experience such a wonderful phenomenon, and perhaps a natural coincidence, more often in your lives, dear readers of my blog. Yours, Olga

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