Love and sympathy: what is the difference ?

Women with great life experience are also often mistaken, taking light love or sympathy of a man as a sign of a serious feeling. The matter is that these emotions are very similar. Therefore, sometimes, it takes a lot of time to recognize the true feelings of another person and your attitude towards him. But it can be done much faster, if you understand at the very beginning what exactly has connected you together. Sympathy arises when you have a positive attitude towards a person, and he causes interest in you. Its signs are benevolence, warm feelings towards the object of interest, desire to spend time with him/her. Love is one of the strongest experiences in human life. It is based on deeper feelings and strong affection.


It sometimes also happens that simple sympathy develops into a more serious and deeper feeling. But no one knows exactly when this will happen - and whether it will happen at all. The line separating our feelings is too thin. However, we can still distinguish them if we recognize the characteristic signs of these feelings. The first sign of love in men is the willingness to sacrifice everything for the sake of their chosen one. It is not surprising, because this feeling is disinterested and determined to give, and not to receive. It is much stronger than sympathy. Of course, we will not refuse to help our sympathetic person. But at the same time, we will not give him/her the best to the detriment of their interests. Loving people believe that they cannot live without each other a single day. And we endure much calmer temporary separation from the people who are nice to us.


Therefore, the next sign of love is continuous thoughts about the chosen one, every moment of whose absence causes melancholy. If the feeling is superficial, then the man who has disappeared from view is rather quickly forgotten. Sympathy is rather a friendly feeling. It encourages us to become friends or companions. And if a certain person doesn't have the same strong mutual feelings, then we react to it calmly enough. But non-reciprocal love always causes suffering. And for such a love we are trying to transcend ourselves, to become better. Sympathy is practically not able to induce anyone to commit a heroic act. A sign of a loving person is a willingness to overcome any obstacles to being with his/her partner.

Ingrid Jonson /dating couch/

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